An ex-lover of mine called me last night. He's married & wants to "see" me. The chemistry between us was amazing...positively combustible. I have never forgotten him, & apparently, he's never forgotten me. He basically wants to have an affair. My friend pointed out that I didn't chase him down, I didn't set out to be a homewrecker, he hunted ME down, but....
Am I a horrible person for considering this?
Yes, you whore! May the fleas of a thousand camels infest your whore-y armpits!
No, you're not horrible, I understand the situation.
No, you're not horrible, but this isn't a shining moment in your life.
You're normal for considering it, not so great if you go through with it.